Designing for the Life You’re Living Now

“Designing for real life” is a phrase you’ll probably hear designers say, and if you don’t, that’s your first red flag. It sounds simple, but it’s actually pretty specific.

Of course aesthetics matter. They should. And yes, seeing a finished space photographed after a project is easily one of my top ten feelings. Watching a design come to life never gets old. But that’s not all a space should be.

Design is about what happens in a home every single day. The routines. The habits. The mess. The moments you don’t even think about, until they stop working.

Most people don’t wake up one day and decide they want to redesign their home. It usually starts with a feeling. You begin avoiding certain spaces without really thinking about it. I’m sure most people reading this have that room, the one you quietly close the door on. It probably stores the family luggage, a couple of stacked storage boxes, and a few things you don’t quite know what to do with yet.

A lot of the time, homes are designed for a version of life that no longer exists. The pre-kids stage. The pre-work-from-home stage. The “this will do for now” phase that somehow lasted years longer than planned. And then one day, the space that once worked perfectly just starts to feel frustrating instead.

And if you’re paying for your home, or paying a mortgage, you shouldn’t be avoiding rooms.
Let’s get your money’s worth.

Designing for Real Life Lives in the Details

Designing for real life means paying attention to the small things. Where bags naturally get dropped when you walk through the door. How shoes always seem to end up in the same pile, no matter how often they’re tidied away. The way everyone gravitates to the kitchen, even when the living room is technically the “nicer” space.

These patterns aren’t bad habits, they’re information. When I design a home, I want to understand where life naturally happens. Because fighting those habits never works. Good design supports them instead.

Kids Change Everything

(And Design Needs to Catch Up)

If you have kids, your home should work for them too, not in a chaotic way, but in a considered one.

Where’s the snack drawer? Can they reach it themselves?
Where do backpacks land?
Where do toys actually get used, and where do they realistically get put away?We can’t pretend these things don’t exist. Spills and accidents happen. That’s why storage is not only a huge part of the conversation, so are materials. It’s about finding a beautiful sofa and choosing a fabric that can handle real life. Design should support your family, not make you nervous to live in your own home.

Pets Count Too

Pets are part of the household, whether the design accounts for them or not. Muddy paws, leashes, bowls, favourite sleeping spots, they all naturally find their place. Thoughtful design doesn’t try to hide that, it plans for it. Durable materials, practical layouts, and finishes that can handle everyday wear make a home feel easier to live in. When pets are considered from the start, the space stays beautiful and functional without constant upkeep.

This Is the Difference Between a House and a Home

Anyone can design a beautiful house. That’s not the hard part.

Designing a home means understanding how people move through it, live in it, and feel in it. It’s about flow. Ease. Function. Spaces that make everyday life feel a little smoother.

That’s why I always say I design homes and not houses.

I’m not interested in spaces that look perfect but feel frustrating. I want your home to support your routines, your family, and your life as it is right now.

If You’re Avoiding Rooms, Something Isn’t Working

If you’re closing doors to rooms and trying to avoid more clutter than you care to admit then that’s your first clue.

It’s not that you need a bigger house.
Just that your home needs to be designed more intentionally.

And that’s where I come in!

Whether it’s a refresh or a full redesign, I help clients turn everyday chaos into spaces that feel calm, functional, and lived-in, in the best way.

We design around real life for real people. So if you’re reading this, and you’re considering starting that home project you’ve been putting off. Click HERE and let’s chat.